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Singer and musician Michelle Parry who suffers from spinal degenerative disease and is giving a concert with her band at the Apex to raise money for the musicians' charity that has supported her through some very difficult times. ANL-160524-153803009

Singer and musician Michelle Parry who suffers from spinal degenerative disease and is giving a concert with her band at the Apex to raise money for the musicians' charity that has supported her through some very difficult times. ANL-160524-153803009

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Watching Michelle Parry perform on stage you would never guess she is battling constant pain.

Pouring her heart and soul into the music, she almost forgets the crippling condition that has blighted her life for more than a decade.

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michelle parry feature - turntable performing on stage ANL-160626-180338001

But the stab of pain in her lower back is there every time she sings. Moving and dancing to the rhythm can leave her unable to walk next day.

Michelle is lead singer of the Suffolk-based eight-piece band Turntable. Music is her lifelong passion ... she sings, plays saxophone, piano, clarinet, and flute, and teaches.

It is also her living. And since she developed degenerative disc disease in her spine there have been many times when working was impossible.

She has already had three serious operations, and faces more complex surgery in a last ditch bid to stave off the effects of her illness .

Singer and musician Michelle Parry who suffers from spinal degenerative disease and is giving a concert with her band at the Apex to raise money for the musicians' charity that has supported her through some very difficult times. ANL-160524-153803009

Singer and musician Michelle Parry who suffers from spinal degenerative disease and is giving a concert with her band at the Apex to raise money for the musicians' charity that has supported her through some very difficult times. ANL-160524-153803009

Now, she is planning a major fundraiser to give something back to the charity that helped save her from bankruptcy.

She is organising a concert at the Apex in Bury St Edmunds to raise money for Help Musicians UK.

It is the leading UK charity for musicians , supporting them through times of crisis, and stepped in when Michelle was struggling financially.

“Help Musicians, and also the Royal Society of Musicians, have helped me for four or five years and have both been incredible”, she says.

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michelle parry feature - michelle on crutches after one of her operations ANL-160626-180353001

“They helped pay my mortgage, and prevented me going bankrupt. They even sent me £50 M&S vouchers to cheer me up, and vouchers for reflexology.”

Turntable are headlining the concert, which is named One Good Turn, supported by St Edmundsbury Male Voice Choir, and the choral group Out of the Shadows.

Michelle, 34, who lives in Bury, first felt the effects of her condition in her early 20s..

“I have been in pain for over 12 years, but at first doctors couldn’t work out what it was. I had times when I couldn’t walk or work.

“I felt no-one believed me about having no feeling in my leg, and the pain, and began to wonder if it was all in my head.

“Once I was playing the piano and my left seized up and wouldn’t move. I couldn’t control or feel it.

“I couldn’t eat because I couldn’t swallow. I couldn’t sing.

“Then I was sent for an MRI scan. A disc in my neck had prolapsed. If I had fallen it could have severed my spinal cord.

“I had an operation in the March, then one that December to have two vertebrae in my lower back fused.

“That went well but as I began to recover I started to feel I needed to fight back.

“I hired a personal trainer and started running races and doing Pilates to strenghten my core.

“For three months I was pain-free then it went again very badly last May.

“Maybe I overdid it. Maybe I shouldn’t have been running, but I was so happy after 10 years of being in pain.

“It was wonderful being able to do things like put on my socks, paint my toenails and walk the dog.

“I had more surgery but because my back was such a mess it didn’t hold.

“I’m now waiting to go into hospital for another operation. Fusion is my last option.

“It will ease the pain it won’t make me 100 percent better because my condition is degenerative.

“The surgeon is waiting for me to agree but I’m fearful of it. I will have to spend six to 12 months in a wheelchair.

“I’m in a lot of pain all the time and am on morphine and a nerve pain killer.

“I don’t look as if there’s anything wrong with me, which is both a good and a bad thing.

“Chronic pain is difficult to deal with because people don’t always understand.

“If I do a gig with the band and move about a lot, the next day I won’t be able to walk.

“Another aim of the Apex concert is to make people more aware of the problems faced by those living with constant pain.

“It completely wipes you out. My marriage has just ended because my husband found it too hard to deal with.”

Music helped her through the toughest times. “It isn’t just my job, it’s my entire life,” she says.

Michelle has been performing since the age of three when she sang Run, Rabbit, Run in a concert organised by her grandmother.

She started out learning the recorder, then moved on to to her other instruments, eventually studying music at Cambridge University.

Now, as well as singing with the band, she is in a duo with a guitarist, and plays clarinet, sax and flute with orchestras.

She says fellow members of Turntable, with whom she sings, plays saxophone, and also manages the band, have been a huge support to her.

“The boys in the band are my family, really. Sometimes I feel like their mum, other times it’s like having several brothers.”

But Michelle knows her future is uncertain. The charities that supported her have limits on how long they can help people, and will not be able to do so again.

“My life hangs in the balance. It all depends on how my back holds up. I’m thinking of setting up an entertainments agency in case I can’t carry on performing.”

One Good Turn takes place on Saturday, August 27 at 7pm. To book tickets contact the Apex box office. To donate a raffle prize, or obtain more information on the band, contact Michelle on 07771 588712.